Throughout the workplace, people are emerging back from vacations, turning their calendars and perhaps wishing they could push the snooze button for one more day…. Just perhaps
The dawn of 2016 also opens the season of annual performance reviews. This tends to make people want to crawl back under the covers as managers deliver 10-20 of these reports.
Can I challenge you to embrace this season and encourage you to see feedback as a gift that is worth giving; not just once or twice a year? Let’s make 2016 the year you give people continual and concrete feedback. Creating a feedback rich environment will cement your culture as a place where “everyone gets better everyday.”
As a leader, it is one of the most significant changes you can make to increase the level of performance, alignment and satisfaction of your employees and co-workers.
Why is this:
- Most people are never told, specifically, that they are doing well and where they can improve. You might be the first person to give them effective feedback.
- Most people are never shown the outcome of their behavior.
- Most people never get supportive feedback that is specific and applicable.
- Most people are never told of their blind-spots, until it is too late.
- Most people crave it… Certainly the kids of people you want on your team do.
If any of the above is true, why don’t we do it more.
Carole Rubin states it this way.. “But providing feedback to a colleague or a friend can be difficult and scary, especially when it concerns something that is hurting your company or your relationship with that person. That fear, Robin says, is based on a belief that many hold that constructive criticism will harm the relationship…. The reality is that feedback can actually strengthen a relationship, because knowing that another person is going to tell it to you straight creates and builds trust….Taking the risk of providing feedback shows the other person that you are invested in the relationship and willing to take the time to help fix the issue.”
No matter where you have been…Here are some places to start….
- Feedback Needs to be Constructive:
Feedback is applying how actions contributed or detracted from the team and its overall performance. Random criticism and nit-picking is not the feedback that will get you anywhere. Might make you feel better but it not worth the cost.
There is an urban legend of IBM founder Thomas Watson…. The legend goes that a top salesman lost $5 million on a project he’d been working on.
Called to see the boss, the salesman prepared to be fired. However, once he was ushered into Watson’s office, he was surprised to find that Watson cheerfully started discussing the next big project they were planning.
Dazed and confused the salesman asked Watson if he was going to fire him for the loss. “Fire you?” responded Watson. “Why would we want to fire you when we’ve just spent $5 million training you up?”
The Point: There are times, you will have to fire someone but if you want an open environment where people get better, you have to do it together, and you have to lead this from the top. Feedback is not shaming, it is an opportunity to get better.
2. Feedback Needs to be Consistent
If Feedback is saved for a couple times and year and worse yet, tied to the same time of pay increases, people are so geared up for it that they can not really take it in. There is just too much emotion. People also need feedback more quickly on behavior so that these changes can be applied and recognized.
People can only absorb 1-2 things at at time. If changing behavior was easy… well, then it would be easy. It is just not. Until the robots are ready… Anyway, think about how you like to get feedback and start there.
Too often we put off giving feedback when someone does something that bugs us. We say, “it’s not a big deal.” Over time, the person does the same thing again, and again. Now we are hacked off at the person. This is a leadership issue, not a behavioral one.
The Point. What gets measured, gets done. When we focus on constant, consistent feedback, we take the emotion out of it and put the focus on constant and consistent improvement.
3. Feedback Needs to Focused on Person and Progress
In order for someone to receive and apply feedback, there are a couple of vitals.
They Trust You
OK, there is really ONE vital element for feedback to be effective.
How do you build this trust?
- Tie Feedback to Their Goals. Example.” I know you want to lead this team one day….
- Make the Feedback Behavior Specific. This behavior caused this reaction. Specific feedback influences specific behavior. General feedback changes general behavior.
- Balance Positive and Negative Feedback
- Be Transparent – Be open to talking about your journey
- Be Open and Seek Out Feedback about yourself.
Giving effective come more naturally for some then others but there is no excuse. you may have to practice. So get out there and practice. Ask for forgiveness if you come on too strong or unintentionally offend someone. Let’s get better… Everyday.